How I met Your mother

Any of you pick up artists out there looking for a laugh should check out the tv show How I met your mother. On it Neil Patrick Harris plays a Pick up artist who uses A lot of routines and gambits to get women to go home with him. The majority of these are absolutely hilarious and the character itself in my opinion is very noteworthy. But as in all films that I talk about on here there is some truth to the craziness. Not much but there is some.
Very soon I will be writing a review on the character played by Neil Patrick harris known as Barney Stinson. Becasue there is something to learn from him not so much in terms of techniques. But in persistance attitude and inner game. So look out for it guys.
Soon to come-
Barney Stinson PUA?

Personal philosophy

In my studies of this field I've come to one inevitable conclusion. I have not heard it before, but I am not going to delude myself into thinking I was the first to think of it. With that said here is my personal philosophy.

It is a Pick up artists job, to create moments. It is the pick up artists job to create the fantasy the woman has always dreamed of.
It is the pick up artists job to give the experience of a lifetime. To have them talking about it to there friends the next morning.
And by creating these moments. And ensuring these experiences. We get to have them as well. So not only should we leave people a little better than we found them. We should leave them a little better than when they found us.
That is what I teach.

A perfect example comes from one of my favorite movies, Hitch.
Before his date with Eva Mendes, Will Smith does his research. He finds out she had a relative come through Ellis Island so he has his friend find the page with her relatives name on it. The plan was to build this experience for her that no other man would do. Or even think of. We can learn from this two things. ONE- Build for her an experience that she would have with no other guy. TWO- Ive said it before and I will say it again. HAVE A PLAN!

Just thought I would put these thoughts out there.

(Note: VERY SIMPLY PUT. Every woman wants her own love story. Its our goal to give it to them. )

Richard Heart

Discussing pick up with friends

The problem lots of people face when they do pick up are judgments based on what you are doing. Let’s face it some people are not willing to learn enough about the community to make an intelligent judgment about it. This discourages some people to drop out of the community. This is sad because even though there are some people out there who don’t understand there are a lot of people who do.
For example.
In a previous post I mentioned Siren my business partner. She also happens to be my best friend and ex girlfriend. She learned about pick up from me and thinks it is an amazing thing. She thinks it is something that most men need. She finds the topic intriguing enough she helps me teach it.
(The interesting point about Siren is that she is the most serious relationship I have ever had. I found her completely intriguing because everything I understood about women and pick up did not apply to her in the typical sense. She is extremely attractive yet the normal things you would do to pick up a woman like her did not work. That intrigued me; it just made her more fascinating to me. And the point is Siren and I have had long discussions about it and are trying to figure out why. We have lots of theories and we teach plan on teaching what we figure out in the class. The point is Siren in interested enough in pickup she is helping to figure out how to pickup girls like her. Funny Huh?)
My own mother knows about pick up and she thinks it is a great thing. She knows I teach it to other men. She even encourages me teaching the basics to my thirteen year old brother who is almost in high school. He is a good looking guy into sports. Has all the little girls crushing on him. But he is too shy. I’m trying to teach him how to effectively use pick up to communicate with the opposite sex. To be confident and secure with himself.
Multiple friends of mine who did not know what pick up was when we first started our friendships snow know and encourage what I do. I love it. I love that I can tell my friends about the community. I love that I can talk about it.
I used to keep to myself about it. I used to think that it was something that people would think less of me for doing. The people closest to me have supported it. And while some people think it’s a bad thing and I think its unfortunate I don’t let it bother me anymore because this is who I am. Pickup is more than just a way to improve your romantic life. It’s a way to live and hiding that is hiding who you are.
Obviously this advice is to be used within the methods of pickup. While it is possible to tell someone that you are a dating instructor, coach, or someone who is interested in pick up and still use pick up on them it is not something that I recommend for the beginner.