Alpha Male Behavior (How do we learn it)

Learning alpha male behavior.
Its a difficult thing to pin down. One of the easiest and fastest ways I have found to learn is threw modeling characters from telivision and film. I know it sounds weird but I am a big motivator for learning alpha male behavior this way. Im a big proprietor of character modeling for multiple things but this to me is probably the most important.
How does this work? Easy but it takes some thought. What characters can you think of that exemplify alpha male behavior to you. Got one? good. Now you go and watch them. repeatedly. Look at the way they act the things they do. What makes them Alpha. They're body language? the way the talk? the things they say and do?
The answer is yes. All of the above.
This is the introduction to a new section of the blog called the Alpha male Reports. I'm gonna take some of my favorite characters and give you an Idea what you can take from studying them. but until then take a look at some of these characters and see what you come up with on your own.

1. BONES- Watch Booth. Quintesential Alpha Male behavior from one of the best examples

2. GHOSTS OF GIRLFRIENDS PAST- JUST WATCH IT

3. THE UGLY TRUTH- Gerard Butlers main character is crazy good

4. SUPERNATURAL- All the girls seem to drool over sam and dean. little hint. look at the body language here. Phenomenal Alpha male examples.

I think that should be good for now.


RICHARD HEART

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Just one of the boys

As pick up artists we are all aware of how many different kind of women there are in the world. To list them all would take a lifetime, we are here to discuss just one type.

The female athlete, one of the boys. Which is the exact problem. They don't necessarily have to be an athlete just one of the boys. We have all seen them, we have all grew up with them. The girl who hangs out with all the boys.

This girl feels more comfortable considering herself one of the guys, she doesn't really understand her own gender. Don't ask this girl for advice about girls she will usually just laugh or get uncomfortable. These girls hardly ever were skirts or dresses and when they do they are visibly uncomfortable. All the AFC's crush on this girl because she appears in reach. She is just like them. But that couldn't be farther from the truth. Because what these guys cant seem to wrap there head around is no matter how simmilar to them they are you need to treat them like girls.

Let me lay this scenario out for you. Three guys one girl. They are friends for years. Then in highschool one of the boys starts to crush on said girl. Aside from flirting and acting uncomfortable he still treats her the same he treats her the way he has always treated her. Like one of the guys.

Are you starting to see where I'm going with this.

Let me lay out one more scenario before I tell you the two ways to get this girl.
Same three guys and one girl. This time quarterback of the football team starts to take a liking to the girl. And she to him. They end up getting together.

Now tell me why does this second guy get the girl and the first guy doesn't.

Its simple and they're are two reasons.

They need to be treated like girls. They are so much more alpha than most of there female friends that they need to be reminded they are girls. The football player does this. he is so much more alpha than her that she feels like a girl when she is around him. And she starts to act like it. The football player haven't not had her as one of the guys. Treats her like a girl. WHICH IS WHAT IS NECESSARY.

Simply put.
The focus needs to be on

1. Out alpha male'ing her
2. Treat her like a girl

Tonight I am having dinner with a female friend who is just like this. she recently got into a relationship and im meeting the man for the first time. Ill tell you guys there story in the next post.

Happy Gaming

RICHARD HEART

Delivery Practice

New students of mine are constantly trying to practice there openers any way possible. But nothing beats real world practice. Only problem there is how to practice because most beginners have approach anxiety and cannot seem to just approach girls for the sake of practice. So approach anxiety and fear of rejection keep you from approaching.

What if you could approach new girls to practice openers and get the delivery practice you need?

Well its not an if there is a way.

Hired Guns.

I know that most people tell beginners to stay away from hired guns. I encourage it. Think about. You can run an entire opener on them in a store without fear of rejection.

No I'm not saying to pick up these hired guns. I'm saying practice your openers.

KEYWORD: PRACTICE!!!

Treat it as such.

My recommendation for a newbie mission:

Gather your openers and go to the mall. Go into any store and open up the salespeople. Make it situation relevant though as you would with any set. You cant just jump up to a salesclerk and ask her opinion on whether you should bleach your hair blond or about your friends jealous girlfriend. But it would make sense if you asked her opinion on what to buy, whether this looks good on you, or whether there is a Starbucks nearby.

Practice flirting just for the sake of flirting.

This will help you practice your delivery, and develop the attitude of being nonreactive and progressively you will move from salespeople to the customers in the mall and you wont even notice.

this is my theory of REJECTION PROOF PRACTICE

Shopping with Siren Part 1

As my readers know I am incredibly close with a woman who goes by the name of Siren. we were shopping the other day. And I got to witness her being hit on, twice and once more today in a very awkward kind of endearing way.

We are standing in line of borders. There is a woman and a man cashier. She has her purchase and I have mine. After the male Cashier is done with the previous customer Siren being the take charge woman that she is walks up before he calls for the next customer. When the cashier looks up he says "Hello" and his voice cracks. In the presence of this beautiful woman he had trouble speaking. As humorous as Siren and I found the voice cracking that was not the BIG thing.

Siren likes reading romance novels so that is what she was buying. when she puts the books down on the counter the cashier says, "Oh I've read that" in a feeble attempt to gain rapport through a commonality. Up until that moment Siren thought he was cute but it was so obvious that he was lying.

Siren said, "Really?"

And our AFC cashier, "Umm, well maybe not that one but something by the same author."

This is one of the biggest mistakes men can make. Trying to build a connection through commonalities. Especially fake commonalities. Let me say this loud and clear women can sense this kind of BS. A million guys have done it to her before and you are no different. Like Mystery Said, "The pick up artist is the exception to the rule"

So learn from AFC cashier. DONT TRY AND PLACATE A WOMAN BY FINDING COMMONALITIES!
When he asked Siren how she was paying she handed him a credit card and in an attempted suave voice he said, "Ahhh Credit cards."

I will pause for hysterical laughter. My only assumption is that this was his vain attempt to continue his flirting.

What Siren says was the biggest mistake Loud and clear was the fact he leaned over the counter with his entire upper body looked her up and down and handed her the reciept. The shear effort he put into this gesture completely lowered his value in Sirens eyes. Its the little things that count.

He also made these mistakes on a much bigger level in terms of ways he could actually have been succesful with siren but we can discuss those in a future post called RETAIL GAME. Look for it.

RICHARD HEART

Magic

In the introduction to this blog I discussed the fact that I am a magician and A pick up artist. I was initially going to use this as a blog to discuss both topics but I dont think that is appropriate. I think that if I discussed Magic too much on this blog it would just blend in with the pick up and people would begin to assume I was preaching to learn magic to pick up women.
While I do think that both the art of pick up and the art of magic have a lot in common I do believe they need to be learned and apreciated seperatly for one to truly benefit the other. That is why I am starting a blog solely to discuss the art of magic. The link will be arriving shortly.