The key to dealing with a tense situation and come out smelling like a rose is very simple. Always be calmer than everyone else. This is an everyday truth that can be applied to any and all situations. From the extreme to the simple.
Think of all the action movies you have seen. How do you know which one is the hero. Which one is the super attractive man that all the women are fawning over. Its the one who is calmly and quietly assessing the situation to find a way out.
So when the shit hits the fan always be calmer than everyone else in the room.
This also brings to mind another need to know principle:
ITS NOT WHAT HAPPENS ITS HOW YOU REACT TO WHAT HAPPENS
A date can go horribly horribly wrong but still end up being the best date a woman has ever been on depending on the way a man reacts. Look at the scene in hitch where he accidentally kicks her in the face on a date yet afterwords she still bragging to her friend about how awesome the date was. This is a perfect example.
So think about these things. I know I was.
RICHARD HEART
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Proximity IOI's/Bus stop game
Definition:
A woman getting into the proximity were an approach is possible even though she could be somewhere else. This is a proximity IOI. She is subconsciously saying approach me. Hell she is screaming it.
Today I was out practicing day game and went to one of my favorite spots. I was waiting at my school's bus stop. Two very attractive island girls walked up and sat next to me. There was plenty of room on other benches. They had other places they could go. This IS AN IOI.
When a girl gives you this kind of blatant IOI they will open succesfully 99.9 % of the time.
Now obviously a girl on a bus who is being forcibly jammed against you is not giving you an IOI and more than likely is uncomfortable by the close contact.
Let me tell you what happened today.
These two girls sat down right next to me, so I opened. I did not think I opened. I asked them when the next bus was coming. This is the easiest and most fool proof opener I have found for a bus stop situation. It gets the Conversation started easily. The girls looked at me, smiled and laughed saying they didnt know. Smile and laughter, these are IOI's.
Lesson here
IF YOU ARE GIVEN BLATANT PROXIMITY IOI's OPEN
Don't overthink it. You are already getting and IOI so Open.
RICHARD HEART
A woman getting into the proximity were an approach is possible even though she could be somewhere else. This is a proximity IOI. She is subconsciously saying approach me. Hell she is screaming it.
Today I was out practicing day game and went to one of my favorite spots. I was waiting at my school's bus stop. Two very attractive island girls walked up and sat next to me. There was plenty of room on other benches. They had other places they could go. This IS AN IOI.
When a girl gives you this kind of blatant IOI they will open succesfully 99.9 % of the time.
Now obviously a girl on a bus who is being forcibly jammed against you is not giving you an IOI and more than likely is uncomfortable by the close contact.
Let me tell you what happened today.
These two girls sat down right next to me, so I opened. I did not think I opened. I asked them when the next bus was coming. This is the easiest and most fool proof opener I have found for a bus stop situation. It gets the Conversation started easily. The girls looked at me, smiled and laughed saying they didnt know. Smile and laughter, these are IOI's.
Lesson here
IF YOU ARE GIVEN BLATANT PROXIMITY IOI's OPEN
Don't overthink it. You are already getting and IOI so Open.
RICHARD HEART
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