The key to dealing with a tense situation and come out smelling like a rose is very simple. Always be calmer than everyone else. This is an everyday truth that can be applied to any and all situations. From the extreme to the simple.
Think of all the action movies you have seen. How do you know which one is the hero. Which one is the super attractive man that all the women are fawning over. Its the one who is calmly and quietly assessing the situation to find a way out.
So when the shit hits the fan always be calmer than everyone else in the room.
This also brings to mind another need to know principle:
ITS NOT WHAT HAPPENS ITS HOW YOU REACT TO WHAT HAPPENS
A date can go horribly horribly wrong but still end up being the best date a woman has ever been on depending on the way a man reacts. Look at the scene in hitch where he accidentally kicks her in the face on a date yet afterwords she still bragging to her friend about how awesome the date was. This is a perfect example.
So think about these things. I know I was.
RICHARD HEART
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