Shopping with Siren Part 1

As my readers know I am incredibly close with a woman who goes by the name of Siren. we were shopping the other day. And I got to witness her being hit on, twice and once more today in a very awkward kind of endearing way.

We are standing in line of borders. There is a woman and a man cashier. She has her purchase and I have mine. After the male Cashier is done with the previous customer Siren being the take charge woman that she is walks up before he calls for the next customer. When the cashier looks up he says "Hello" and his voice cracks. In the presence of this beautiful woman he had trouble speaking. As humorous as Siren and I found the voice cracking that was not the BIG thing.

Siren likes reading romance novels so that is what she was buying. when she puts the books down on the counter the cashier says, "Oh I've read that" in a feeble attempt to gain rapport through a commonality. Up until that moment Siren thought he was cute but it was so obvious that he was lying.

Siren said, "Really?"

And our AFC cashier, "Umm, well maybe not that one but something by the same author."

This is one of the biggest mistakes men can make. Trying to build a connection through commonalities. Especially fake commonalities. Let me say this loud and clear women can sense this kind of BS. A million guys have done it to her before and you are no different. Like Mystery Said, "The pick up artist is the exception to the rule"

So learn from AFC cashier. DONT TRY AND PLACATE A WOMAN BY FINDING COMMONALITIES!
When he asked Siren how she was paying she handed him a credit card and in an attempted suave voice he said, "Ahhh Credit cards."

I will pause for hysterical laughter. My only assumption is that this was his vain attempt to continue his flirting.

What Siren says was the biggest mistake Loud and clear was the fact he leaned over the counter with his entire upper body looked her up and down and handed her the reciept. The shear effort he put into this gesture completely lowered his value in Sirens eyes. Its the little things that count.

He also made these mistakes on a much bigger level in terms of ways he could actually have been succesful with siren but we can discuss those in a future post called RETAIL GAME. Look for it.

RICHARD HEART