Shopping with Siren Part 1

As my readers know I am incredibly close with a woman who goes by the name of Siren. we were shopping the other day. And I got to witness her being hit on, twice and once more today in a very awkward kind of endearing way.

We are standing in line of borders. There is a woman and a man cashier. She has her purchase and I have mine. After the male Cashier is done with the previous customer Siren being the take charge woman that she is walks up before he calls for the next customer. When the cashier looks up he says "Hello" and his voice cracks. In the presence of this beautiful woman he had trouble speaking. As humorous as Siren and I found the voice cracking that was not the BIG thing.

Siren likes reading romance novels so that is what she was buying. when she puts the books down on the counter the cashier says, "Oh I've read that" in a feeble attempt to gain rapport through a commonality. Up until that moment Siren thought he was cute but it was so obvious that he was lying.

Siren said, "Really?"

And our AFC cashier, "Umm, well maybe not that one but something by the same author."

This is one of the biggest mistakes men can make. Trying to build a connection through commonalities. Especially fake commonalities. Let me say this loud and clear women can sense this kind of BS. A million guys have done it to her before and you are no different. Like Mystery Said, "The pick up artist is the exception to the rule"

So learn from AFC cashier. DONT TRY AND PLACATE A WOMAN BY FINDING COMMONALITIES!
When he asked Siren how she was paying she handed him a credit card and in an attempted suave voice he said, "Ahhh Credit cards."

I will pause for hysterical laughter. My only assumption is that this was his vain attempt to continue his flirting.

What Siren says was the biggest mistake Loud and clear was the fact he leaned over the counter with his entire upper body looked her up and down and handed her the reciept. The shear effort he put into this gesture completely lowered his value in Sirens eyes. Its the little things that count.

He also made these mistakes on a much bigger level in terms of ways he could actually have been succesful with siren but we can discuss those in a future post called RETAIL GAME. Look for it.

RICHARD HEART

Magic

In the introduction to this blog I discussed the fact that I am a magician and A pick up artist. I was initially going to use this as a blog to discuss both topics but I dont think that is appropriate. I think that if I discussed Magic too much on this blog it would just blend in with the pick up and people would begin to assume I was preaching to learn magic to pick up women.
While I do think that both the art of pick up and the art of magic have a lot in common I do believe they need to be learned and apreciated seperatly for one to truly benefit the other. That is why I am starting a blog solely to discuss the art of magic. The link will be arriving shortly.

How I met Your mother

Any of you pick up artists out there looking for a laugh should check out the tv show How I met your mother. On it Neil Patrick Harris plays a Pick up artist who uses A lot of routines and gambits to get women to go home with him. The majority of these are absolutely hilarious and the character itself in my opinion is very noteworthy. But as in all films that I talk about on here there is some truth to the craziness. Not much but there is some.
Very soon I will be writing a review on the character played by Neil Patrick harris known as Barney Stinson. Becasue there is something to learn from him not so much in terms of techniques. But in persistance attitude and inner game. So look out for it guys.
Soon to come-
Barney Stinson PUA?

You dont have to like them to think they're smart

We are not gonna name any names. Thats not what I am about. I abhore the political badgering and bashing done by PUA's. It seems that no instructor can teach his stuff without bashing someone else. But I have a small oppinion about this I want to share.
There are a lot of people out there like this. That I dont have much respect for.
There are also people out there who were not portrayed very kindly in the media and its hard to like them very much. (Including several people who are not portrayed very kindly in THE GAME)
My advice here is to look at what these guys have to offer yourself. Some of them you will not like as people but you have to appreciate they're intelligence in the subject of seduction and pickup. And you might have a lot to learn from them technique wise.
Also they're are the guys who are not portrayed well in the media. I recommend reading something they write. Or listening to a recent interview with them. Because I have found that a lot of these guys grow and evolve into amazing Pick Up Artists and or they were portrayed unfairly.

So lesson is.
there is too much bigotry, and political bantering in the community. Do not judge someones teaching till you personally look into it and try it.

PUA review #2: Made of Honor

Siren called me up while she was on vacation and said, "Have you seen the movie MADE OF HONOR. You will love it I think you should do a review of it on your blog."
Well let me tell you something. When it comes to siren telling me that I will like something. She is usually right. Soooooo needless to say here is the review of made of honor.

Patrick Dempsey is our pick up artist in this film. this is very well expressed in what I call the coffee cup scene. Dempsey is in a coffee shop picking up his and his best friends morning pick me up. there is an attractive woman eying him in line. There is an elderly lady waiting to pick up her coffee. Dempsey walks past the attractive girl and charms the older lady. He then turns around and finds that the attractive girl has picked up his coffee by mistake. She hands it back to him and it has her number on it.

what you should notice here is the fact that he showed disinterest to his target and DHVed by charming the older lady.
What you should learn in my mind from this scene is to never underestimate the value of charming the obstacles. A woman watching you being kind and helping an eldery man or woman is a HUGE DHV. And come on, its also just the nice thing to do. :0

Also in the beginning of the movie Dempsey character mentions the Doggy dinner bowl look. It was really funny because he puts it this way, "I have a theory, you see when a woman is into a man she has this look. I call it the doggy bowl look because its the same look a dog gets when you are about to set the bowl down" For those of you who don't know the DDB look was a term popularized by Ross Jeffries.

This film also accurately depicts the evolution of a Pick up artist who wants nothing but sex into someone who wants a genuine relationship. As he realizes he is in love with his best friend he tries to duplicate that relationship with multiple girls. The best scene about this is when he takes a girl he picked up to an antique store.
GIRL: Why are we here?
DEMPSEY: TO look around maybe buy something.
GIRL: BUT EVERYTHING IS SOOOO OLDDDDDDD.
DEMPSEY:Why are you talking like a six year old.
GIRL: Im not!!!!!!!!

Its at this point were he realizes he values intelligence and maturity not just physical beauty.
I personally related to these scenes because I went through a similar progression. This happens to all of us. We think at first we know what we want and then we learn. Through experience and time. What we want in a woman. Me personally I like a girl who can shut me up. I normally dominate socially and when a girl can hold her own in a conversation it gets my interest. Especially when she outdoes me in the comeback department. But that's just me ;)

So when you watch this movie remember these points. And also this movie is just funny in general. and as always I left room for some of your own observations. Enjoy

Richard Heart

Glee pick up artist?

Have any of you seen the hello episode of glee? There is a scene were one of the main characters of the show, Rachel Berry, gets picked up. It is really an intriguing scene because as I was watching it I realized that is exactly what you would have to do to pick up this specific girl. It is well thought out, and planned thoroughly. I recommend watching it.

Richard Heart

Another Hitch Quote

"Like I tell my clients start every day like its on purpose."



This is a great way to think of things. Lots of people have trouble getting up in the morning There mood is down. Here is some advice. start a routine. It will help you get out of bed and feel accomplished. Its amazing what just getting breakfast getting a shower and getting up at a decent hour can do for your mood